Will Ferrell and Harper Steele recently shared their experience with transphobia during a visit to Texas, which has garnered attention due to its stark implications for the LGBTQ+ community. In their Netflix documentary, Will & Harper, the duo reflected on a troubling incident that occurred at the Big Texan Steak Ranch in Amarillo, Texas. This moment, described as “intense,” involved a microaggression directed at Steele.
While discussing the documentary with The New York Times, Steele recounted how, during a toast, they mentioned legislation affecting transgender rights. This prompted reactions from the audience, including boos and a woman’s voice shouting, “We still love you.” Steele found the phrase particularly troubling, interpreting it as a conditional expression of acceptance tied to conformity with traditional values. “The ‘still’ implies that my identity is something to be tolerated only if I renounce it,” Steele explained, conveying the discomfort that enveloped the room.
Ferrell expressed his regret at the situation, feeling a sense of guilt for placing Steele in such a challenging environment. He admitted, “I didn’t realize how intense it would be and felt responsible for not adequately preparing for what we faced.” The stark contrast between their intention to enjoy a casual meal and the reality of hostility was jarring for both.
The documentary follows their personal journey as Ferrell learns about Steele’s transition into a transgender woman. Their friendship, which has spanned three decades since their time on Saturday Night Live, has evolved amid this new chapter. Steele’s journey began publicly in 2022, leading to their decision to take a road trip across America to process their shifting relationship dynamics.
This moment in Texas is set against the backdrop of recent legislative actions in the state, such as Senate Bill 14, which bans gender-affirming care for transgender youth. These developments have raised concerns about the climate for the LGBTQ+ community in Texas, particularly as public displays of support or acceptance seem to be increasingly conditional.
The narrative presented in Will & Harper emphasizes the importance of understanding and embracing diversity in America. Following its premiere at Sundance, Netflix acquired the documentary for a reported eight-figure sum, highlighting the demand for stories that reflect the complexities of friendship, identity, and societal issues.